BLAME IT ON OBAMA

February 26th, 2010 by margierobben

If you had told me two years ago that I would ever be interested in the health care bill I would have said you were crazy. In the past, when the mail came with a big fat envelope containing car, house, or health insurance I would throw it in some kitchen drawer, never to look at it again. Those insurance contracts were totally boring and I wouldn’t waste a minute looking at them. On the other hand, there were times, when I would spend hours a week on the phone with insurance companies fighting for “injustices” and their unfair practices. But that was the extent of my interest.

 

So, how did it happen that I played hooky from work on Thursday, February 25th to watch the health care summit on TV, which was being broadcast from the Blair House in Washington, D.C.?  I anxiously waited for the 10 a.m. start, and except for occasionally getting up for some food, getting dinner prepared, etc., I was glued to the T.V.set until after 5 p.m. I became annoyed when a station stopped the debate to show a commercial and I found myself switching channels looking for a commercial-free cable station. I went back and forth from MSNBC to CNN to FOX

 

 

The feeling I have inside myself is that I am watching history being made. The lucky part for me is to have the time to experience it. Being present while history is being made is invigorating. The debates, and the difference of opinion going along with the process, are energizing.

 

The health care decisions being made in our Capital involve much more than what it looks like on the surface. The issue goes to the core of our being. Life or death, sickness or health, what do we want for ourselves and for others? On one side we see people able to understand and empathize with the dilemma who want to do whatever it takes to fix the health care system now. The other side says they understand the problem and want to reform the present system too, but they want to start the debate all over, throw out 13 months of work already done, and start from scratch with a “clean sheet of white paper”. The latter group talks about not raising taxes and letting the private sector fix the problem. It is said that the people in Congress have the best health care system in America and many of them don’t know what it’s like to have what 30,000,000 Americans don’t have. Nothing!

 

I am not alone participating in history being made.  For over a year now I have seen people all over the Country in heated debates about health care. Like others, I have written articles about what I have seen and gone to town hall meetings on the subject. I have been asking myself, “how come the entire country has gotten involved in such a boring subject?” Hot and boring just doesn’t seem to go together.

 

So, who is to blame for this nation-wide involvement?  How about blaming President Barack Hussein Obama? President Obama is taking the hit for everything going wrong in America anyway, so let’s just blame him. I think he can handle it. I believe he expects it. More debate, more resistance, more passion, more interest, more action, more change - exactly what he wants. How else could things possibly get done in America?

 

President Obama has said during his campaign for President and many times after, “I cannot do it alone!” I guess he meant it! He needs the American people to help him. Change needs emotion. Change needs energy. Change needs action. Change needs everyone interested and working. Everyone working toward a more perfect union.

 

Whatever finally happens to the health care bill, the President has succeeded in getting an entire country worked up over a subject that is intrinsically boring. All Presidents should have in their resumes “community organizer”. So, let’s give President Obama his due. Just blame him for it all.

 

 I guess I will have to start reading all those boring insurance policies now. Ugh!

 

WHERE DID ALL THE GOOD BREADS GO?

February 24th, 2010 by margierobben

I was introduced to Pepperidge Farm Bread by Thirza Ferris, an Irish immigrant from County Sligo. She would buy the Connecticut bread “unsliced” and make her fantastic stuffing for the Thanksgiving turkey every year. That year was some time in the early l950’s. She would cut off the crust, crumble the bread up with her fingers, add a little butter and chopped onion, salt and pepper, resulting in the most glorious fluffy light colored, best tasting stuffing in the world. Unfortunately Margaret Rudkin’s Pepperidge Farm bakery was bought by Campbell Soup in the early 1960’s. Since then, the bread’s taste and consistency has changed, but very gradually. So small were the changes you would hardly recognize it.

The same goes for Levy’s Jewish Rye Bread, with or without seeds. The bread was firmly delicious with a little ham and Swiss cheese and Gulden’s mustard inside.  The changes in taste and consistency happened fast. Levy’s Jewish Rye is now a soft, mushy consistency, something like the old Silvercup or Wonder Bread.  Levy’s was purchased by Arnold Bakery more recently.

The bread that seemed to make life worthwhile in the 1990’s and 2000’s was Beyond Bread in Old Greenwich. Harvey Edwards, the baker and man who owned Beyond Bread was a very special guy. When he first thought about opening a bread store he knew the only oven he would bake his bread in was an oven imported from Italy at a tremendous cost to him. He sold his french bread and rolls to many stores and restaurants around town.  For years, the teenagers who were out late roaming Old Greenwich  would stop by Harvey’s back door and be treated to leftovers from the day before. His back door was always opened to the neighborhood kids.

Michelle, Harvey’s wife, said Harvey got very sick, had some difficulty breathing and she had to close the doors to the store. She thought Harvey got his lung disease from working and breathing in flour for so many years.  Flour in the lungs can be as damaging as asbestos. He also smoked. Harvey will be missed as a great baker and as a humanitarian.

Good things in life don’t seem to go on forever. Some good things are sold to big companies and repackaged and can’t maintain the original high quality - like  Pepperidge Farm Bread and Levy’s Jewish Rye Bread. And then there are good things, like Harvey Edward’s Beyond Bread on Sound Beach Avenue, that probably will not be bought and repackaged.  We can only remember the many good years Harvey has given us when we sipped cappuccino and ate a buttered roll on one of his little round tables.

ABORTION: LEAVE US ALONE!

February 19th, 2010 by margierobben

Abortion!  I don’t know a woman who has ever had an abortion who didn’t feel badly that she had to have one.  To listen to the issue debated throughout America, you would think that women had no problem aborting.  To read the rhetoric and to see the anti-abortion crowd holding up their hateful signs you would think it was an easy decision to make. Yes or no. Abort or not abort.

 

It is not an easy decision for a woman to make. For some, the decision means life or death. To others it may be inconvenient. To others it may be a result of rape or incest. To others it may come at a time when a woman is still a child herself. And to a great many women it may be just one more child too many that she can’t handle.

 

Another part of the complexity is the potential father of the aborted baby. Does he want the abortion?  Will he help the mother nurture the child?  Was “sex” the extent of his commitment? Was the close encountering just another notch in his conquest belt and he did not expect a pregnancy?

 

Then…….you throw in fragility, physical illness, mental issues, no job, no money, no insurance…..and the decision mushrooms into a decision that no one but the woman can and should make.

 

It is positively okay for Sarah Palin and Pam Tebow, mother of Heisman trophy winner, Tim Tebow, to rejoice at their decision to bring a child into the world. Sarah says she thought about abortion first but then decided against it. Tebow’s mother was sick with a serious infection and was counseled by her physician to abort. She decided against it. There are many women like them. They thought they could do it despite what people may have said.  Other women decide differently.   They may have too many additional problems working against them.

 

Women are nurturing by nature. The God of all has given them the responsibility of carrying a child to term, delivering the child, and then nurturing the child until they reach adulthood. Women intuitively know when they can do something and when they can’t. They can make their own decisions. Everyone should leave them alone and stop with the “murder” rhetoric and “killing babies” signs they hold up during their anti-abortion marches.

 

We must have confidence in women to make their own difficult decisions. You can counsel, advise, or support, but you cannot decide for a pregnant women and tell her she has to go through with a pregnancy.  

 

To use abortion as a political issue is unconscionable. Holy people help and support. Holy people do not accuse, point fingers, and call women horrible names. Holy people have confidence that others will do what is right and only a woman will know what is right for herself.

Rush Limbaugh and Haiti

January 15th, 2010 by margierobben

No one knows when disaster will strike a person or a country, but it surely will strike. To those of us who are fortunate enough not to have it strike our front door, we are thankful, and at the same time we can reach out and assist those whose door it has struck.

I sent the conservative radio talk man, Rush Limbaugh, an e-mail yesterday out of frustration with his comments about Haiti. Rush Limbaugh is a man who is not only financially well off, successful in the field of talk radio, but a man who has been lucky enough to keep several disasters from his own front door. He has survived a media frenzy about his use of illegal drugs and  a recent hospitalization while vacationing in Hawaii. Instead of being contrite and thankful, Rush uses his situation to brag politically that there is nothing wrong with the American Health Care System. He said when leaving Hawaii that he received the best health care a country could give.  He is now suggesting to Americans they should not send any financial help to Haiti. He says we already give enough to Haiti through our taxes. OMG!

I don’t know if it is a waste of time, but here is what I wrote Rush yesterday,  January 14, 2010.

“Rush Limaugh,
 You would think that a person who has been able to establish and refresh himself to the public after a bout with drugs and a recent scare of heart aches, would be a little less hateful. It just doesn’t seem to work that way with you. It is very sad that you continually shed and project your inner self-hated on people who are trying to do something to make our country better.
 
Your latest insult was to suggest our President was just waiting for a disaster like Haiti so as to have the opportunity to display to the world his great oratory and community organization skills in helping the people of Haiti and our own people working there. You said that Haiti was just playing into his (Obama’s) hands.  Are you suggesting in your remarks that God is blessing our President with such a teaching opportunity? You are truly off your rocker! Someone must buy you a roll of duct tape so you can self-administer it across your mouth if you can’t control yourself with the words you spew out over the airwaves. Enough already, or you will be on your way to a looney asylum.
 
 Marge Robben”

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVE AND HEALTH CARE

December 24th, 2009 by margierobben

By Margie Robben

This morning, Christmas Eve 2009, at 7:15 a.m. the Health Care Reform Bill was passed by the Senate by 60 to 39. The Senate has been working for 25 straight days to get a Senate bill passed.  The Senate’s bill now joins the House of Representative’s bill and must be combined to make one bill.

After the Christmas Holiday the House and Senate will return to do the final work on the bill.  To get this far the rankor in Congress and the public left much to be desired. Let us hope the work as it goes forward will be serious, and without the destructive forces we have seen in the past. 

At the present time the bill is not perfect and needs much tightening up in terms of costs, what it will cover, and it will have to curtail the amount of fraud which exists in health care now. We expect, however, that most Americans will be covered, that the Health Care Industry will be monitored to make sure 85% of monies they receive goes into health care and not administrative costs, and that a person will not lose their health care because of “pre-existing conditions”.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone!

This morning, Christmas Eve 2009, at 7:15 a.m. the Health Care Reform Bill was passed by the Senate by 60 to 39. The Senate has been working for 25 straight days to get a Senate bill passed.  The Senate’s bill now joins the House of Representative’s bill and must to be combined to make one bill.

After the Christmas Holiday the House and Senate will return to do the final work on the bill.  To get this far the rankor in Congress and the public left much to be desired. Let us hope the work as it goes forward will be serious, and without the destructive forces we have seen in the past. 

At the present time the bill is not perfect and needs much tightening up in terms of costs, what it will cover, and it will have to curtail the amount of fraud which exists in health care now. We expect, however, that most Americans will be covered, that the Health Care Industry will be monitored to make sure 85% of monies they receive goes into health care and not administrative costs, and that a person will not lose their health care because of “pre-existing conditions”.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone!

LIEBERMAN, The Emperor With No Clothes On

December 19th, 2009 by margierobben

by margierobben.

I sent my letter of criticism of Joe to be published by the Stamford Advocate on their “Letters to the Editor” page, but they chose not to publish it.  The people of Connecticut and the Advocate did not seem to be as angry at Joe as I was.  Things seem to be different now, two months later.

This morning, Gail Collins of the New York Times quite eloquently said of Joe Lieberman,  “He bounds around happily, doing the talk shows, confident that he’s the same independent-minded independent who believes in independence as always. Observers who have known him for a long time feel as though they’re living out a scene in a science-fiction movie when the guy who’s just been bitten by the vampire-moose comes home and sits down to dinner, unaware that he’s sprouting antlers.”

Joe Lieberman is all happy these days because he has succeeded in making the Health Care Reform Bill so weak that it looks like it is a gift to the Insurance Industry and not a gift to the American people.

Initially, Joe said that he will not let the Health Care Reform bill come to the Floor of the Senate if it had a public option for health care in it. To get Joe’s vote, the public option was removed.

The Senate thought that the Health Care Bill should include Medicare for people aged 55 to 64. The Senate thought Joe would go along with the idea because for many years Joe was passionate about getting the age of Medicare lowered. But Joe said “No” again. The attempt to lower the Medicare age was removed. Senate Democrats are so frustrated in getting Joe Lieberman’s vital 60th vote they are ready to “kill” the Bill.   They think the Bill as it stands now only fattens up the Insurance Companies and does little or nothing for the millions of people who have been thrown out of the Insurance system by previous illnesses or because they cannot afford to pay for it. 

It has been reported that Joe has taken millions of dollars from the Insurance Industry, and that his wife has lobbied for Insurance Companies. (Can someone fill me in on this?)  Does Joe represent the people of Connecticut or the insurance industry?

On November 15, 2009 there was an Interfaith Prayer Vigil for Joe, praying that Joe would stand up for national health care reform including a strong public option. The large diverse coalition of religious leaders from across the state were respectful and included pastors, rabbis, priests, imams and many people of faith. Guess what? All that praying must have failed!

Joe Lieberman continues to walk around like the Emperior who has no clothes on as his staff continues to shout at him that the clothing he is wearing is ”beautiful and glorious.”  And on top of his beautiful and glorious head his new sprouting moose antlers are growing bigger and bigger.

 
Written on October 15, 2009
Dear Senator Lieberman,
 
I have received your letter responding to my letter to you.  Your letter reminds me of the fairy tale about the “emperor who has no clothes” who thinks he looks gorgeous as he parades himself nude to his constituency.
 
I believe one of your staff read my letter, not you; one of your staff wrote the response, not you; and that you will never be given some of the harshest letters from the people who object to your judgement and conclusions. There is a word “out there” in the public that once Joe Lieberman comes out with a decision like he “won’t support the public option” he will never change his mind. This idea comes from people who know and analyze you much better than I do. Pretty rigid!
 
The majority of the people of Connecticut support the public option. This is a fact! You cannot then say, as you do, that you listen to your constituents. The majority of the people of Connecticut will soon get the information that you listen to the Insurance Industries of America and that you get your marching orders from them.
 
So, go inside - put on some real clothing. Stop hiding behind your belief in God, the Sabbath, what the people want, etc. No one that I know believes it.  Siding with the Insurance companies, getting their money, neglecting the needy people of Connecticut will only work toward your demise and legacy.
 
Margaret Robben
 

THE EXPLOITATION OF WOMEN

November 23rd, 2009 by margierobben

The big issue debated in the news these last few days is a report by a U.S. Preventive Services Task Force suggesting a change in age for women having mammograms. They now say women ages 40 – 49 should not get mammograms at all and they should start at age 50 and they should only get them every other year. Further, women 74 or more should not get them at all. Finally, I am free and clear!  This special Task Force also says there is evidence of potential harm to women having annual exams beginning at age 40 which outweighs the benefit of having them.

 

In terms of cancer of the uterus and the use of pap smears to detect the cancer, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists is now suggesting pap smears should not start when a woman is sexually active but, rather, start with women in their 20s and only every two years instead of annually. This group says that more treatment leads to overtreatment and can harm a young woman’s chances of carrying a child to full term. They also said that “overtreatment of minor abnormal pap tests in young women and adolescents can lead to consequences such as preterm labor in some cases”

 

Women have faithfully followed the rules of the “professionals” for years. They usually do what the doctor tells them to do. They are kept in perpetual anxiety about their bodies during the tests and the time waiting for the results of the tests.

 

I, like most women I know, suffered from this kind of anxiety, as well as the humiliation of the test itself. After five babies by thirty years old, many “procedures”, a few “physician mistakes”, wrong prescription drugs, and multiple allergic reactions, I stopped listening and acting on what I was told. I began to take things into my own hands. At forty my rebellion started. 

 

It was beginning to occur to me that when I was a child and through young womanhood, no one in my family or the community I knew seemed to die until they were very old. Girls got married young, raised their children and lived to a ripe old age. Rarely did I hear of a woman dying. If they did die it was usually from drinking too much alcohol, getting a stroke, breaking a hip and getting pneumonia, getting hit by a car, or dying in a fire.  Breast or uterine cancer was unheard of to me. It wasn’t that people didn’t talk about it. They talked about everything all the time around me. Nothing was ever censored.  I would have heard about it because I was always listening.

 

When I started to pose questions about the increase in womens’ cancers in the 70s and 80s to various medical professionals, I was told that studies and comparisons could not be made because no one kept records in the old days. I did believe it when they said no one kept records in the old days, but I didn’t believe the conclusion. The conclusion seemed too simplistic. The conclusion was not scientific. Just because records weren’t kept was no reason to assume there was no rise in cancers. You cannot say, as they did, that incidents of cancer have remained constant through the years. One could make the case, also, that the reason there were no records in the old days was that there was little or no cancer cases to record.

 

I had my own theory and it started its’germination on……….

 

One Halloween night in the 1960s my husband and I went to a Halloween Party where you had to come in an original costume. We were Catholic and of course the “forbidden” birth control pill was the Catholic issue of the day.   My husband went to the party dressed as “the pope” splendidly outfitted in red velvet with a huge tall pope hat, and I dressed in a large puffy round white garment with a word on it saying “the pill”.  We won 1st prize in the contest. Our friends, Jim and Claire came as Clark Kent/Superman and Lois Lane They took second prize. Clark Kent set up a little scene, ala Saturday Night Live Style. Someone at the party tried mishandling Lois Lane. He excused himself for a moment, went into a room, removed his outer clothing and came back as Superman, punched the offender, knocked him to the ground, and saved Lois Lane. I was thinking a lot about birth control pills in those days, especially after five children. Our small group of “Catholics” or “Roaming Catholics”, like my husband used to call us, was filled with creativity and mischief.

 

In those fun-filled and questioning days I was starting to theorize that perhaps something in “the pill” could do damage to the cells in women.  I had nothing to go on but a hunch. Later, it was shocking to me that physicians were routinely x-raying women’s breasts as a way to give women a “heads up” on finding a cancer of the breast “early”. It was haunting to me as I questioned the annual mammograms. I asked myself, “ how can a woman’s body tolerate the constant onslaught of hormones in birth control pills and estrogen replacement therapy, and the annual x-rays to the delicate membranes of the breasts? It seemed to me that these new procedures on women may have something to do with the cancer they were getting. After all, if you x-ray the breast routinely, how many times would it take for a woman to get breast cancer?  You hear so many women saying, “I was lucky, my cancer was caught early!” “ Thank God for my mammogram,” they also would say.

 

 

I had a few mammograms and pap smears myself when they first came “on the market”. I stopped doing them when my worry grew stronger every year about their effect. I told my gynecologist that all I get from the yearly pap smear is a yearly infection in the area he did his “snip”. I told him I would not take a mammogram because I felt it was harmful.  Needless to say I did not make my doctor happy. He would get all red-faced with anger and told me he would not be responsible for my health. I told him I would take “full responsibility” for my own health. We had many arguments and I sent him articles I read to support my theory, making him even angrier.  I stopped seeing him about ten years ago. I don’t think he is still alive, and he was a lot younger than me.

 

We all can see that breast cancer is epidemic! It is clear to me that something we are putting in our bodies, being done to our bodies, and being sprayed on our bodies has made cancer the problem it is today. The scientific industry spends a lot of time and money on how to “treat” the cancer once you get it, but not so much on the reasons women are getting cancer.  There is such pride in cancer research by keeping women alive who have cancer and there is less interest in finding out the reasons women get cancer in the first place. Maybe this will start to change.

 

I have told some woman close to me about my observations.  It is a hard sell. There are a lot of people invested in cancer and/or who have a lot of money lobbying to keep things the same. I would love to know if records are kept about the history of each women who gets cancer. What tests they have done, how often. What medications they have taken and the medications their mothers have taken to get pregnant, what they are exposed to every day at home or at work. Do they spray their homes and gardens with pesticides, what foods they eat. Have they ever lived near instruments emitting high electricity or nuclear energy, etc.

 

 I have included in my warnings about the danger of the “blue light” emitted by copying machines and the electricity given off from electric blankets as not being good during a woman’s pregnancy. Again, it is a hard sell!

 

In the past years I have grown tired listening to myself and have stopped the negativity in relating these observations to others and have started to enjoy life and let everyone do what they want to do. Up until now.

 

I understand some women are beginning to feel threatened and angry and feel that something is being taken from them when the suggested changes showed up this week. It is even becoming a political issue. Dr. Cheryl B. Iglesia , the chairwoman of a panel in the obstetricians group that developed the Pap smear guidelines said “there’s no political agenda with regard to these recommendations.”.

 

The pink ribbons of breast cancer are all around us. There is pride being a “survivor”. There are walks and runs and bike rides for cancer. It is great that women are supporting women.  Anything that brings women together for a cause is wonderful.

 

However, women have to look beyond what is presented to them. Women must demand that the scientists do exhaustive analysis of the history of the women who are getting cancer. We all know a lot of money has been spent working to get women free of cancer and there must be money spent trying to find out how they got it!

 

Gail Collins, a columnist for the New York Times recently wrote an article about her own cancer. She had mammograms every year like clockwork. In 2002 she said she found a lump in her breast after having a mammogram and was given “a clean bill of health”. Her doctor said that Ms Collins probably would not have gotten cancer if she had not taken estrogen replacement therapy.”  Now there is a doctor who knows something is amiss and is not afraid to say what he thinks. There may be HOPE, after all!

 

 

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November 22nd, 2009 by margierobben

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